Thursday, July 7, 2011

Women and jeans

For those who can't read arabic: the comment on the upper part of the picture is: for the sake of Allah....... and below: for the sake of the slave of Allah.....  First time i saw this picture it made me laugh, coz somehow it is sooo true. We all love to attract, and we all want to be part of a society. So a part of our dress is somehow always a way of integration in the society we are living in, a part of it is probably for the sake of Allah, the other part for the surroundings. The dress of a muslima is always influenced from the cultural environment she is living in. So for example a khaleeji arab girl is usually wearing black abaya even if she is not that much religious, a nord african hijabi most probably a caftan with hijab, a muslima with asien background probably a shalwar kameez with hijab, a muslima raised in Europe probably jeans with long-sleeves shirt and headscarf.... without even thinking over wether her dress is really fitting in the concept of islamic modesty. Islam and islamic dress code is and should be free from cultural influence. Wearing jeans is such a cultural influence. Not even women of the western society were wearing jeans before the feminism. Women in pants became an expression for that what feminism tried to claim: women would be equal to men. Al hamdoulillah islam was the first religion which gave similar rights for women, without jaming them into roles, which were not meant to be for women.
Regarding the cloths from women.... in islam there are 8 conditions which must be fullfilled:

      1-      It should cover the entire body, except the face and hands.    
                related by Abu Dawood: "Ayesha(r) reported that Asmaa bint Abu Bakr(r)
        came to the Messenger of Allah(swt) while wearing thin clothing. He
        approached her and said: 'O Asmaa! When a girl reaches the menstrual age,
        it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this.'
        He pointed to the face and hands."
2-      It must be wide and loose, not showing the size of her limbs or the shape      of her body.
3-      It should not be thin, showing the colour of her skin.
4-      It should not be an adornment in and of itself
5-      It should not be perfumed.
6-    It should not resemble the clothing of men. (Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: Allah's Apostle cursed those men who are in the similitude (assume the manners) of women and those women who are in the similitude of men.  Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 72, Number 773)

7-    It should not resemble the dress of kaafir women. (It was narrated that Ibn ‘Umar said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Whoever imitates a people is one of them.’” (Narrated by Abu Dawood, al-Libaas, 3512. Al-Albaani said in Saheeh Abi Dawood, (it is) hasan saheeh. No. 3401). Al-Munaawi and al-‘Alqami said: i.e., dressing as they dress, following their way of life in clothes and some of the things they do.

8-      It should not be a dress of fame and vanity.

Based on this, a woman should not appear in front of men wearing pants or trousers, also jeans, for three reasons: 
1 – They show the shape of the woman’s legs
2 – Wearing them is an imitation of men 
( as pants are traditionally mens wear ) and there is a hadeeth which says: Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: Allah's Apostle cursed those men who are in the similitude (assume the manners) of women and those women who are in the similitude of men.
Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 72, Number 773

3   it is immitating the kuffar ( even in the western world,women didn't wear pants before the last century) and it is haram for us muslims to immitate the kuffar.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: I think that the Muslims should not follow these fashions and kinds of clothes that come to us from here and there. Many of them are not in accordance with proper Islamic dress which involves covering the woman completely, like the short or very tight or thin clothes. That includes pants, because they show the size of a woman’s legs, as well as her stomach, waist, breasts, etc. Wearing it comes under the description given in the saheeh hadeeth: “there are two types of the people of Hell whom I have not seen: people with whips like the tails of cattle, with which they strike the people, and women who are clothed yet naked, walking with an enticing gait, with something on their heads that looks like the humps of camels, leaning to one side. They will never enter Paradise or even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance.” 

This hadeeth was narrated by Muslim, 2128.
He also said: What I think is that it is haraam for women to wear pants, because they are an imitation of men. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed women who imitate men. It also takes modesty away from the woman, because it opens the door to wearing the clothes of the people of Hell, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are two types of the people of Hell whom I have not seen…” and he described one of them as being, “women who are clothed yet naked, walking with an enticing gait, with something on their heads that looks like the humps of camels, leaning to one side. They will never enter Paradise or even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance.” 
End quote from Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 12, question no. 192, 104. 
It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (17/102): It is not permissible for (a woman) to wear pants, because that involves women resembling men.
Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him) was asked: Is it mustahabb or waajib for a woman to make her dress long? Is wearing socks on the feet sufficient if the dress is shortened only so much that nothing of the calf shows? How should a woman lengthen her dress by a cubit – below the ankle or below the knee? 
He replied: What is required of the Muslim woman is to cover all her body in front of men, hence she is allowed to lengthen her garment by a cubit so as to cover her feet, whereas men are forbidden to let their garments hang below their ankles. This indicates that women are required to cover all of their bodies. If a woman wears socks that is doing something extra to be more on the safe side with regard to covering, which is something good. She should also make her garment long, as described in the hadeeth. And Allaah is the Source of strength. End quote. Al-Muntaqa min Fataawa al-Shaykh al-Fawzaan, 5/334. 
The point is that a woman’s jilbab should be wide and come down to her ankles or more. If it is short and comes a handspan above the ankles, that is not permissible even if she covers her calves and feet with pants or socks, because that is imitating men who are enjoined to make their garments short, above the ankles. It also shows the shape and size of her feet. 
And Allaah knows best.
So far the fatwas to the subject..... there are a few more, but this ones are giving valid reason and logical argumentations. I think the picture above makes it clear enough: a headscarf is not equal to hijab and modest covering. Actually the dresscode described in the Quoran, and often missinterpreted/misstranslated as outer garment, is the JALABIB.  {"O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among men). That is better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims) and not annoyed..." (Qur'an 33:59) }  = {Ya ayyuha an-Nabiyy qul li azwajika wa banatika wa nisa al-mu'minin yudnina alayhinna min jalabib hinna; dhalika adna an yu'rafna fa laa yu'dhayn. Wa kana Allahu Ghafur Rahim}
The reason for missinterpretations: there is no equal word in english or any other languages for the arabic word jilbab, or plural jalabib. Therefor translators usually represent the word jalabib with general terms like cloaks or outer garments. Jalabib, or jilbab is in fact nothing else as the abaya, today mainly worn by women of the arabic gulf countries. So far the only piece of cloth which is fullfilling the requierement of not showing the shape of body.

11 comments:

  1. dear friend assalam-o-alaikum!
    i came across to your blog and i read your article about hijaab. i agree that just a head covering scarf isn't enough but i do not agree that women should not wear pants! islam doesn't confine its believr by clothing. as far as i think women can wear pants if worn appropiately. like with long shirts . in many cases pants are more easier to wear. and turn out to be better than other outfits! so i hope that helps you understand my ideas!

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  2. Good day all,
    As far as logic is concerned, everybody -men and women- MUST wear the clothes that are appropriate for prayer. This is how it should be explained to people, but; unfortunately, it has not been that clarified. We have to tell people that Islam obliges everybody to respect this this rule ` wear what enables you to pray with`. This is unless we are at home or with just mahrams. Salam

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  3. @Namrah: walaykoum salam dear friend.... JazakAllah for sharing your opinion. So far the Quoran is clear about womens dressing code: it is not stating about headscarf and whatever below. The term is written in the Holy Quoran for describing the clothing of believing women is "jalabib" the plural of jilbab. What jilbab is clear for us all i guess: it is often translated as "outer garment" as there is no english word for it, in fact it is nothing else as what is worn in the middle east as abaya or jilbab: a loose garment covering the whole body and not showing its shape at all... even with a long shirt a pant is more likely showing the shape of the body of women. Besides, as explained above: not even western women wore pants before the last century, it counted as extremly inappropriate. It took place with the feminism around the middle of the last century, as sign for the equality between women and men. But according to islam womens and mens awra is different, and pants are not able to give the requested coverage with or without long shirts or kameez.
    "O Prophet! Say to your wives and your daughters and the women of the faithful to draw their outergarments (jilbabs) close around themselves; that is better that they will be recognized and not annoyed. And God is ever Forgiving, Gentle."
    Qur'an Surah/Chapter Al-Ahzab Ayah/Verse 59
    If you read this verse in the original arabic version, you will realise: what is translated as outer garment is written in arabic as jilbab. I dont think that we can confuse jilbab with long shirts and pants... w Allah w 3alem.

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  4. What still makes me sick is that people talk about Islam and describe Muslims as SLAVES of Allah. This word makes a lot of people refuse to learn about our religion, as nobody wants to be a slave. Please use WORSHIPER instead. Thank you.

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    1. A slave does everything their master tells them.. people are happy to be slaves of fashion and culture without question but have a problem with being the slave of Allah? Even Prophet ( saw ) considered himself as a slave of Allah so who do we think we are having a problem with the term and concept?

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    2. A slave does everything their master tells them.. people are happy to be slaves of fashion and culture without question but have a problem with being the slave of Allah? Even Prophet ( saw ) considered himself as a slave of Allah so who do we think we are having a problem with the term and concept?

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  5. Ladies and men must wear the clothes that are allowed to pray with.

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  6. There's nothing in Islam that say jeans are not allowed, since its jsut clothing.
    However, the main thing is to not wear tight, revealing clothes that show off the body.
    Since u wear your jeans with a long shirt and a scarf, its okay, so dont worry.

    Regards

    Anum
    Pakistani News

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  7. Assalaamu 'alaykum,


    Explicit Mention of Jilbab in Primary Muslim Religious Sources

    The authority of the requirement for women to wear the jilbab is the Qur’an itself. In the chapter of al-Ahzab (The Confederates) the following verse instructs Prophet Muhammad:


    'O Prophet!
    Say to your wives and your daughters and the women of the faithful to draw their jalabib (pl. of jilbab) close around them; that is better that they will be recognized and not annoyed. And God is ever Forgiving, Gentle.’ [2]
    The divine wisdom for instructing women to wear the jilbab mentioned in the above verse is so that women be modestly attired and not be subject to the irreverent insults of the unscrupulous.

    The obligation of jilbab is also derived from the Sunnah of Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) which is the second primary source of law for Muslims.

    Narrated Umm Atiyya: We were ordered to bring out our menstruating women and screened women to the religious gatherings and invocation of the Muslims on the two Eid festivals. These menstruating women were to keep away from the musalla. A woman asked, "O Messenger of Allah! What about one who does not have a jilbab?". He said, "Let her borrow the jilbab of her companion".[3]

    The above understanding was practised by women at the time of the revelation of the above verse as the following reports indicate:

    A report narrated Umm Salama,(A wife of the Prophet): When the verse, "That they should draw their jalabib close around them" was revealed, the women of Ansar (inhabitants of Madinah) came out as if they had crows over their heads by wearing jalabib.[4]

    A report narrated by Aisha (Another wife of the Prophet): The wife of Rifa'a al-Qurazi came to Allah's Messenger while I was sitting…and she was showing the fringe of her jilbab.[5]

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  8. Wear the clothes you can pray with.
    as simple as that

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